Life is a journey and destination together so is a life partner ,
What exactly is a life partner ?
Life partner is a meaning to life , a meaning which expands our horizon to look beyond physical horizons , a process of togetherness to travel in time totality , a hope and strength during roller coaster of fortunes , a companion and compass to show and guide on the unknown frontiers .
Ram been lucky to find a fine lady whom I call “Mitu ” off course her name is Mithlesh and our journey of togetherness started on 15 Feb 1976 and today we complete 47 years of blissful bondage to each other .
In our Indian tradition marriage is a sacred knot which one ties not just for one life but for seven more life to come , but this feeling only becomes true when one looks beyond physical realm into spiritual reality ,
Same tradition percolates in mind , heart and souls of all loving couples of this world .
we are one such couple who wants to meet each other again and again and again .
(c) ram H singhal
p.s. …. life is a flow of time where we start two in a boat and as we flow with time our children and grand children make this life meaningful , happy and blissful.
It is certainly not an overstatement that Torch and battery cells and Eveready have been synonymous with each other in India for over a century.
So in Year 1957 we also had a torch and batteries as a precious possession in our large family of many brothers and sisters .
one day as I was cleaning the torch and cells…. my mother asked what is on the cells written and what is this logo ?
so explained her in simple understandable words as she could do primary education only.
Eveready = Cat ever ready to drink Milk ( it was very common in 1950 – 1960 that cats will drinks milk from the open kitchens as refrigerators were not there . )
Asked her one day on her habit of regular bath year around morning and one before going to bed ?
This body is like a car from the God and I drive it everyday so always keep it clean inside and outside
Do not know ….when God want it back…..
So I am also like your battery cells….. Eveready
was her reply .
In Summer of year 2001 , me and my wife travelled to New York USA. as my elder son was graduating from Parsons School of Design . My wife decided to stay back with my son to travel around USA. both returned to India in first week of June 2001.
When she went to touch my mother’s feet for her blessings …..my mother told her….now you have come so it is my time to go and now I am already 82 so invite all family for Lunch on 7 June 2001.
on 7 th morning she was well but was in contemplation . At around 1 o’clock she asked every one to go and have lunch in Main Building in our Haveli.
….. and when all returned from the lunch it was almost her lunch time .
so I went and touched her hands to enquire about lunch and she opened her eyes looked at me…..looked at the picture of Lord Vishnu on the wall and told me……eveready…..and closed her eyes for ever.
In my opinion she was truly a spiritual and a person of 360° Enlightenment.
with tears of love on Her Death Anniversary as per Hindu Calendar.
Great saint Kabir’s bhajans ….Jhini jhini Chadriya….in the voice of Great maestro Kumar Gandharva’s eternal voice truly is picture of Her life.
Children are Enlightened Masters but without Aware of a Source of Eternal Happinessand Wisdom which an Enlightened Master is aware of .
Yesterday after Her Evening prayer and Yoga , my Grand Daughter Mishka 7 years tells me that in Her opinion We all are One but Do not know How ?
Explained her with the Example Of Earth Atmosphere which is Source of Life for Everyone including me and her as well as all life on Earth.
Since all life on Earth breath from same Atmosphere so we are all connected so inside we are one family and outside we are all Balloons of Different colors having same air inside and together again we make a world family outside also.
During this discussion appeared a Mantra in my Mind which reads as : – अयं बन्धुरयंनेति गणना लघुचेतसाम् उदारचरितानां तु वसुधैव कुटुम्बकम् ॥
Meaning: The distinction “This person is mine, and this one is not” is made only by the ignorant . For those who know the Supreme Truth , the Whole World is One Family
( The words वसुधैव कुटुम्बकम् (vasudhaiva kuTumbakam) come from the मंत्र mantra VI-72 in महा उपनिषद् Maha Upanishad which belongs to sAmaveda tradition. ( Period 1500 to 3000 years BC )
Either people believe there is …..a Cosmic Current of CreationorPeople do not believe there is ….. a Cosmic Current of Creation.
Enlightenment 360ºis …..Knowing the Cosmic Current of Creation
Science is …..knowing the Multiple Uses of Cosmic Current of Creation
Believingandnot believing both are either Spiritual or Scientific philosophies.
Enlightenment 360º is …… Knowing that We all are a World family Inside and World Family Outside from the same Cosmic Current of Creation which was Before Start of Time and will be after End of Time also.
It brings this song also in Mind
Colored bulbs can not colour the Cosmic current of Creation .
When I see my Grandson Yajvin 13 and grand daughter Mishka 7 , talking about an upcomming festival of Raksha Bandhan with so much of Enthusiasm , remembered my own Cycle of life .
When you are surrounded by 5 elder sisters and 2 younger sisters so on this festival of Raksha Bandhan both hands used to be full with Rakhis tied on my both hands as one hand will not accommodate 7 Rakhis during my Childhood .
India is Land of Festivals , which were designed for spiritual growth , emotional maturity and mental development all around the Year .
Raksha bandhan is a traditionally Hindu festival, in which sisters tie a Sacred band, Amulet or Talisman called a ‘Rakhi’ around the wrists of their Brothers .
Raksha’ means Security and ‘Bandhan’ means Bond, which clearly signifies the meaning behind the Hindu festival. It celebrates the bond between siblings, or Brother and Sister .
It is a True Love Bond which becomes stronger and stronger with every year . it is a great Social Security and very good factor for Mindfullness and Spiritual Growth for both brothers and sisters .
Meaning: ॐ Aum! That is infinite, and this (universe) is infinite. The infinite proceeds from the infinite. (Then) taking the infinitude of the infinite (universe), It remains as the infinite alone. Aum! Peace! Peace! Peace!
( Science believe that we are in a expanding universe , in my opinion this is the Mantra or Law of Expanding Universe or Cycle of Life )
Heel is the Symbol of Faminism to bring equality in Gender equal rights and heights .
Last 2 centuries of Science Era given society the change of roles as machines replaced human labour so a Men as Bread Earners and Woman as Home Makers also had to think of equal opportunities for Women outside Home and for Men inside Home.
In the aftermath of world War II , the lives of women in developed countries changed dramatically. Household technology eased the burdens of home making, life expectancies increased dramatically, and the growth of the service Sector opened up thousands of jobs not dependent on physical strength.
Women’s rights movement or Feminism was need of that time and it worked well for the freedom of Women all arround.
but after 50 years of Feminism , women may have been standing tall but in doing so many or most of them lost ” Feminine Mystique “
Every human has to work with both the brains together through Mind which is Bridge between Subjective right Brain of Timeless soul and Objective left Brrain of Time Body .
This Mythological picture originates in Santan Dharma of India before Thousand of Years and speaks in Visual Language of 1000words and qualities of Right Brain ,Left Brain and In middle ” the Mind of God and In Scientific Terms it is our Brain Map explained centuries before Modern Scientific Era.
Goddess Saraswati = Goddess of creativity =Right feminine subjective Brain which is of Timeless Soul and gives Emotional Intelligence ,embrace principle of forgiveness,compassion and vibrations of cosmic love,teach us how to accept each other, and bridge to many qualities like creativity, imagination, devotion, totality, generosity, dedication and etc …….
Lord Ganesha = Lord of success = Left Masculine objective Brain which is of our Time Body and gives logical intelligence and also represents perfection , adventure ,science, information, worship of work , objective technology, and etc……
As scientists are progressing unfolding the mysteries of cosmos and Brain , it is getting easier and easier to understand cosmic intelligence we may refer as God or ” Mind Of God “. which is in the Center and represented by Goddess Laxmi .
Goddess Laxmi = Goddess of Happiness and Wealth = Mind of Cosmic intelligence Neutral and Natural. ( one day Science will learn about this also ) and this Picture shows the Importance of Feminine energy in Indian Developed and cultured Society .
Men because of gender has a natural inclination towards Left Brain which is masculine in nature represents the Time Body ,
As time is a linear dimension and it has Stress as its character and along with it comes fragmentation in personality , hence Men had lot of vices which include absence of committment to one parter , intoxication , mental stress and many more …… so they needed more spiritual and psychological guidence …..
Woman because of gender has a natural inclination towards Right Brain which is feminine in nature represents the Timeless Soul.
As Timeless is a dimension of poise , totality , beauty and many more so women remained beautiful for longer time with ” Feminine Mystique ” which is a Sacred Gift of Divine to Women .
But the Heel of Feminism has started hurting women all accross world as they are shifting from Right brain to Left brain which is not natural and in turn has given them all stresses which earlier Men use to carry and vices along with it ……. it is a great loss to Women hence they also need more spiritual and psychological Guidence.
The women should hold this ” Sacred Gift of “Feminine Mystique ” while walking equally with Men in outer and inner World and Men should honor this gift for a Better and Developed Society in this creative age of scientific and spiritual Enlightenment .
Major difference between a Child and an Enlightened Master is Child is not aware of its own ” Source of Blissful Happiness ” but an Enlightened Master is .
In India everybody is confined to home for almost 25 days . To Utilise this time Creatively my Son Yogik took out his own childhood Lego and his large collection and for 10 Days along with his both daughters created this Lego ” City of Love ” and togetherness with train running arround the city,
Beware of EGO in Falling into Love
Aware with Lego in Feeling of Love ,
Lego is a journey of creativity , a journey of Happiness , makes you Child outside and an Enlightened Master inside .