Today is exactly 13 years of my time presence on WordPress .
Time is a teacher so is WordPress for me . Time like us is a blogger .
we do like what time unfolds and folds for us so one day 13 years before my Grand children inspired me to have a blog and write .
it been possible with appreciation , guidance and visits from wonderful bloggers like you, who also inspired me to continue my journey as a Blogger.
I am still eager to learn and earn Wisdom and Knowledge reading your Blogs on various topics .
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Time is a teacher so is WordPress for me . Time like us is a blogger , we do like what unfolds and folds so one day 12 years before my Grand children inspired me to have a blog and write . many inspirations from fellow bloggers , a great site for quality conversations on varied subjects to learn and unlearn .
Life is a journey and destination together so is a life partner ,
What exactly is a life partner ?
Life partner is a meaning to life , a meaning which expands our horizon to look beyond physical horizons , a process of togetherness to travel in time totality , a hope and strength during roller coaster of fortunes , a companion and compass to show and guide on the unknown frontiers .
Ram been lucky to find a fine lady whom I call “Mitu ” off course her name is Mithlesh and our journey of togetherness started on 15 Feb 1976 and today we complete 47 years of blissful bondage to each other .
In our Indian tradition marriage is a sacred knot which one ties not just for one life but for seven more life to come , but this feeling only becomes true when one looks beyond physical realm into spiritual reality ,
Same tradition percolates in mind , heart and souls of all loving couples of this world .
we are one such couple who wants to meet each other again and again and again .
Love all.
(c) ram H singhal
p.s. …. life is a flow of time where we start two in a boat and as we flow with time our children and grand children make this life meaningful , happy and blissful.
ram been lucky to find a fine lady whom I call “Mitu ” off course her name is Mithlesh and our journey of togetherness started on 15 Feb 1976 and Today we complete 46 years of Blissful Bondage to each other as Life Partners . What exactly is a Life Partner ?
Mithlesh has explained life and love through these two pages included in my new Book ” Yatra 2021′
Purpose of life is to share Wisdom .
you are welcome to Download PDF of my Book ” Own Zero ”
It is certainly not an overstatement that Torch and battery cells and Eveready have been synonymous with each other in India for over a century.
So in Year 1957 we also had a torch and batteries as a precious possession in our large family of many brothers and sisters .
one day as I was cleaning the torch and cells…. my mother asked what is on the cells written and what is this logo ?
so explained her in simple understandable words as she could do primary education only.
Eveready = Cat ever ready to drink Milk ( it was very common in 1950 – 1960 that cats will drinks milk from the open kitchens as refrigerators were not there . )
Asked her one day on her habit of regular bath year around morning and one before going to bed ?
This body is like a car from the God and I drive it everyday so always keep it clean inside and outside
Do not know ….when God want it back…..
So I am also like your battery cells….. Eveready
was her reply .
In Summer of year 2001 , me and my wife travelled to New York USA. as my elder son was graduating from Parsons School of Design . My wife decided to stay back with my son to travel around USA. both returned to India in first week of June 2001.
When she went to touch my mother’s feet for her blessings …..my mother told her….now you have come so it is my time to go and now I am already 82 so invite all family for Lunch on 7 June 2001.
on 7 th morning she was well but was in contemplation . At around 1 o’clock she asked every one to go and have lunch in Main Building in our Haveli.
….. and when all returned from the lunch it was almost her lunch time .
so I went and touched her hands to enquire about lunch and she opened her eyes looked at me…..looked at the picture of Lord Vishnu on the wall and told me……eveready…..and closed her eyes for ever.
In my opinion she was truly a spiritual and a person of 360° Enlightenment.
with tears of love on Her Death Anniversary as per Hindu Calendar.
Great saint Kabir’s bhajans ….Jhini jhini Chadriya….in the voice of Great maestro Kumar Gandharva’s eternal voice truly is picture of Her life.
Finance and fiancée both are Handle with Care Subjects.
Finance Management of earning is learning.
Everyone who wants to live with the fiancée happy life , should learn it at the stage of friendship only .
Finance , Family , Food ,and future all are important matters which need careful budgeting , spending and saving .
Quarterly Finance management in my view should be that you divide your earning in four quarters .
First quarter for Home 0r housing .
Second Quarter for Food .
Third Quarter for Family (Clothing and children education and misc }
Fourth Quarter as Saving
Yesterday my younger Son who explained me difference between ” Access to Money “ and ” Excess of Money ”
Credit Card is an ” Access to Money ” and Debit Card is an ” Excess of Money ”
Careful budgeting , Careful spending with in Budget in cash or with Debit card and extra careful saving is key to happy Life with fiancée as loving wife.
Availing Access to money in any means is mortgaging of one’s future , live within the present means is freedom of Life.
Be in Excess of Money yet with strict budgeting and Be with your Honey happily ever after.
Breath in love and Breath out happiness has been and is true wealth of my life.
Today is my 69 th Birthday , a day of celebration with my family , do not know how to thank them all for their devotion , respect , togetherness , love and moral support in all walks of life.
I am grateful to my Body , my Guru and Guide on the path of creative enlightenment .
A day to remember my ” Loving Parents ” for this precious life .
Gratitude to the ” Universal Consciousness ” for gifting me Love , Happiness and this wisdom Book ” OWN ZERO ” text in 1984,
Love to all my Grand Children for inspiring me to learn photography in 2016 to make it a Coffee Table Wisdom Book to share.
A sincere appreciation for all my friends , fellow bloggers on WordPress , readers of my Blog on Social Media
Children are Enlightened Masters but without Aware of a Source of Eternal Happinessand Wisdom which an Enlightened Master is aware of .
Yesterday after Her Evening prayer and Yoga , my Grand Daughter Mishka 7 years tells me that in Her opinion We all are One but Do not know How ?
Explained her with the Example Of Earth Atmosphere which is Source of Life for Everyone including me and her as well as all life on Earth.
Since all life on Earth breath from same Atmosphere so we are all connected so inside we are one family and outside we are all Balloons of Different colors having same air inside and together again we make a world family outside also.
During this discussion appeared a Mantra in my Mind which reads as : – अयं बन्धुरयंनेति गणना लघुचेतसाम् उदारचरितानां तु वसुधैव कुटुम्बकम् ॥
Meaning: The distinction “This person is mine, and this one is not” is made only by the ignorant . For those who know the Supreme Truth , the Whole World is One Family
( The words वसुधैव कुटुम्बकम् (vasudhaiva kuTumbakam) come from the मंत्र mantra VI-72 in महा उपनिषद् Maha Upanishad which belongs to sAmaveda tradition. ( Period 1500 to 3000 years BC )
Either people believe there is …..a Cosmic Current of CreationorPeople do not believe there is ….. a Cosmic Current of Creation.
Enlightenment 360ºis …..Knowing the Cosmic Current of Creation
Science is …..knowing the Multiple Uses of Cosmic Current of Creation
Believingandnot believing both are either Spiritual or Scientific philosophies.
Enlightenment 360º is …… Knowing that We all are a World family Inside and World Family Outside from the same Cosmic Current of Creation which was Before Start of Time and will be after End of Time also.
It brings this song also in Mind
Colored bulbs can not colour the Cosmic current of Creation .
When I see my Grandson Yajvin 13 and grand daughter Mishka 7 , talking about an upcomming festival of Raksha Bandhan with so much of Enthusiasm , remembered my own Cycle of life .
When you are surrounded by 5 elder sisters and 2 younger sisters so on this festival of Raksha Bandhan both hands used to be full with Rakhis tied on my both hands as one hand will not accommodate 7 Rakhis during my Childhood .
India is Land of Festivals , which were designed for spiritual growth , emotional maturity and mental development all around the Year .
Raksha bandhan is a traditionally Hindu festival, in which sisters tie a Sacred band, Amulet or Talisman called a ‘Rakhi’ around the wrists of their Brothers .
Raksha’ means Security and ‘Bandhan’ means Bond, which clearly signifies the meaning behind the Hindu festival. It celebrates the bond between siblings, or Brother and Sister .
It is a True Love Bond which becomes stronger and stronger with every year . it is a great Social Security and very good factor for Mindfullness and Spiritual Growth for both brothers and sisters .
Meaning: ॐ Aum! That is infinite, and this (universe) is infinite. The infinite proceeds from the infinite. (Then) taking the infinitude of the infinite (universe), It remains as the infinite alone. Aum! Peace! Peace! Peace!
( Science believe that we are in a expanding universe , in my opinion this is the Mantra or Law of Expanding Universe or Cycle of Life )
Heel is the Symbol of Faminism to bring equality in Gender equal rights and heights .
Last 2 centuries of Science Era given society the change of roles as machines replaced human labour so a Men as Bread Earners and Woman as Home Makers also had to think of equal opportunities for Women outside Home and for Men inside Home.
In the aftermath of world War II , the lives of women in developed countries changed dramatically. Household technology eased the burdens of home making, life expectancies increased dramatically, and the growth of the service Sector opened up thousands of jobs not dependent on physical strength.
Women’s rights movement or Feminism was need of that time and it worked well for the freedom of Women all arround.
but after 50 years of Feminism , women may have been standing tall but in doing so many or most of them lost ” Feminine Mystique “
Every human has to work with both the brains together through Mind which is Bridge between Subjective right Brain of Timeless soul and Objective left Brrain of Time Body .
This Mythological picture originates in Santan Dharma of India before Thousand of Years and speaks in Visual Language of 1000words and qualities of Right Brain ,Left Brain and In middle ” the Mind of God and In Scientific Terms it is our Brain Map explained centuries before Modern Scientific Era.
Goddess Saraswati = Goddess of creativity =Right feminine subjective Brain which is of Timeless Soul and gives Emotional Intelligence ,embrace principle of forgiveness,compassion and vibrations of cosmic love,teach us how to accept each other, and bridge to many qualities like creativity, imagination, devotion, totality, generosity, dedication and etc …….
Lord Ganesha = Lord of success = Left Masculine objective Brain which is of our Time Body and gives logical intelligence and also represents perfection , adventure ,science, information, worship of work , objective technology, and etc……
As scientists are progressing unfolding the mysteries of cosmos and Brain , it is getting easier and easier to understand cosmic intelligence we may refer as God or ” Mind Of God “. which is in the Center and represented by Goddess Laxmi .
Goddess Laxmi = Goddess of Happiness and Wealth = Mind of Cosmic intelligence Neutral and Natural. ( one day Science will learn about this also ) and this Picture shows the Importance of Feminine energy in Indian Developed and cultured Society .
Men because of gender has a natural inclination towards Left Brain which is masculine in nature represents the Time Body ,
As time is a linear dimension and it has Stress as its character and along with it comes fragmentation in personality , hence Men had lot of vices which include absence of committment to one parter , intoxication , mental stress and many more …… so they needed more spiritual and psychological guidence …..
Woman because of gender has a natural inclination towards Right Brain which is feminine in nature represents the Timeless Soul.
As Timeless is a dimension of poise , totality , beauty and many more so women remained beautiful for longer time with ” Feminine Mystique ” which is a Sacred Gift of Divine to Women .
But the Heel of Feminism has started hurting women all accross world as they are shifting from Right brain to Left brain which is not natural and in turn has given them all stresses which earlier Men use to carry and vices along with it ……. it is a great loss to Women hence they also need more spiritual and psychological Guidence.
The women should hold this ” Sacred Gift of “Feminine Mystique ” while walking equally with Men in outer and inner World and Men should honor this gift for a Better and Developed Society in this creative age of scientific and spiritual Enlightenment .